It is understood the family arrived at the victim’s family home early this week with a hala which included Tongan handicrafts, soft sweet food and drinks.
Kaniva News reports it followed with a matāpule formally asking the Malakai’s family to forgive their son.
Police have charged the 25-year-old suspect with murder.
Malakai, 51, worked as a customs officer at the Ministry of Customs.
Some of the Ministry’s staff wrote on Facebook saying they were with Malakai at one of the night clubs before the alleged incident happened.